Hello again...
HenryTX2002, I'm in a club in Europe, and don't seem to have the connection to Houston/Austin.. But the lairs in USA that I know about is here:
A-T-L-A-S Atlanta Lair http://groups.yahoo.com/group/A-T-L-A-S/
ArizonaPUA
Arizonas Lair. http://www.arizonapua.com/
Boston PUA Society http://www.bostonpuasociety.com/
Nashville Lair http://groups.yahoo.com/group/NashvilleLair/
Ohio Lair http://groups.yahoo.com/group/ohiolair/
p-l-a-y Player's Los Angeles http://groups.yahoo.com/group/p-l-a-y/
vasf Vancouver ASF http://groups.yahoo.com/group/vasf/
Maybe you can find a good lair there... If you're not too far away from them.
Have you tried Instantanous Personal Magnetism, because you talk about that others don't seem to like you.. That you don't radiate good energy..
What about joining a club like tennis club, or a team sport club, where you have to work together with some people in a sport.. Any club is a good at thing to get to know other people.. Or just a hang out club of any kind... Try and try and try...
A good thing is that if you are afraid that they don't like you, then try to build rapport with them imidietly when you meet them.. I do that when that happens.. I do that when I meet new people.. Everytime they quickly begins to like me.. takes me in as partner.. Like copying how they stand physically, and where they have their hands or/and copying their tonality of their voice.. This is almost undetectable.. Aand just building good rapport.. That you can speak with them in their world.. That you understand their world also builds good rapport..
Anyway.. have not bin so much out in the street lately to say hi to women.. And you are probably right Alex.. About talking about the enviroment and other things like that. That they don't get that much often.. Also I have read about good openers, like going over to a girl, and ask her: "Hello.. Can I have a womans opinion? Who lies the most? Men or Women?..." and later "Who lies the best?". And if you are lucky they opens up.. Have only tried that once yet.. But it felt so uncomfortable to say somthing that you have planned, but the good PU's (good seducers) are good at it.. Also at patterns and stories, that build a really good connection to them...
In my club most of them do the direct approach.. But it takes some guts.. Just going up to the lady and say "Hi.. woow you look really beutiful. I'm just dying to meet you.. My name is..", and being totally direct all the time.. Takes some guts.. Have not done that yet.. but thinking of trying it..
[This message has been edited by NokPhill (edited September 28, 2004).]
