I just want to say thanks. I took all the SFQ classes a few years ago and practiced the active exercises and small universe meditation but I got away from it and haven't done any for some time now.
I liked the small universe except that I could not breathe nearly as long as the sounds lasted so I would take an extra breath but I always felt like a loser for having to do that and felt I wasn't doing it "right" and so I eventually stopped doing the meditation.
Now, I will give myself permission to take the extra breath and start practicing again. Maybe at some point I'll be able to take longer breaths.
(I'm glad I came back and started reading the forums again.)