Hi, Foxdream,
I used silk peonies as well. I am not sure, if it's the peonies that worked or my relationship cards. I did a lot of releasing as well (I just let go). I also read about another Feng Shui method called peach blossom direction and I used the quantum colors - maybe it's the combination that did the trick for me ...
But instant success? No, it was a development. I changed my environment and then I realised my thoughts and emotions and released them - and vice versa.
Love,
Astrid