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Try smaller, concrete goals that are steps to your larger goal. Use the paraliminals for the larger goal but also use the paraliminals for the smaller, concrete goals. Create goals that you can sense with your five senses, ie what will you see, hear or feel when you reach your goals.
If you want a closer relationship with somebody, what will the small, concrete indicators that show you are moving in that direction be. Then set those as your purposes with the paraliminal sessions.