Thank you all so far for your answers. They are helpful.
However, I do have the answers to those questions but I have too many options. I have a hard time choosing the thing I really, really want without feeling that I may be missing out on the other options. There must be one thing that I like most, which'll suit me best but I can't for the life of me decide what it is.
I will try the book. I love the title...
Hope I can get hold of it here in Holland.

Love, Angie