No problem about the Mr Miss Ms Mrs business. I just go by Alex. It doesn't really matter as to gender as long as the information is useful, right?
BnOmar,
One of the main reasons people have trouble is they don't really know their purpose. We grew up hiding our real purpose from ourselves and others because we fear we would look like we're silly. I can think of occasions in my own childhood I had a terrific reason for doing something (that's a purpose) and I wound up in trouble for it. And to save myself the grief of explaining my purpose and being told "you didn't think of the consequences?" It's easier to take the scolding question, "Why did you do that?" with "I don't know."
And I have no doubt, that's the first answer that echoes in ones head when I ask them, what's your purpose (reason) for reading this book.
Another hang-up from hiding our purpose is we no longer define it clearly for fear if we try to explain it to someone and learn there are consequences.
Alex
