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Hi Alex,

I have noted a pattern in myself relating to a relationship that is just beginning. I am interested romantically but also just really like this person and would like to remain friends no matter what. I have found it difficult to think clearly about what is really happening between us and have been using paraliminals to some good benefit - nothing like a new romantic relationship to bring stuff up to the surface!

One issue that I am having some trouble with is the vacillating between hope and hopelessness that I am experiencing. I want to be able to be at ease with whatever is happening and to be clear headed but this vacillating is a bit of a problem I am wondering which paraliminal to use to help me out - any suggestions greatly appreciated.

I recommend using the Letting Go Paraliminal. And consider Anxiety Free, Self-Esteem Supercharger and for relationship self confidence, Sales Leap.

And you might want to listen to Intuition Amplifier. As well.

Alex

Thanks Alex!

I have been using those and also New Option and New Behaviour which really seemed to help break the spell of my experiences of the past and give me new possibilities. I also had a huge breakthrough with New History after using those two, perhaps they helped unglue something that had me be able to get in deeper with New History.

Can you let me know the difference between Talk to Win and Sales Leap?

Sales Leap - is for sales and dealing with rejection. It's an ideal Paraliminal for the presenter, sales person. You know you're going to an interview and want the job, time to pull out Sales Leap. Going to stand in front of an audience to make a presentation, you're selling and hoping not to be tarred and feathered as well as run out of town. This Paraliminal builds confidence as well.

Talking to Win Paraliminal is for general conversation, having the ear of the person, usually for the undefined situations were you find yourself needing to explain why, why someone should clean their room, why it's in their interest to show up for work on time. How they can do their work. Talking to Win is for the leader. Thinking on your feet, different topics and needing people to respect your authority. Go with this Paraliminal.

Alex