I like to explore all the questions that Paul ask. Often the one I pick consciously is the one I need to work on but there have been times when one of the others gave me an ah-ha and I found that one was the one I wanted to work with.
Don't be afraid of modifying Paul's questions. He could easily have generated 20 or 30 relevant questions. So you could just as easily as Why is this important to me?
You know on most Paraliminals Paul asks the questions again in the beginning of the recording. It is easier if you have already thought about it but hearing someone ask you the question triggers the thinking into deeper levels.
You don't need a perfect answer. In fact you may not be able to answer them at all. Just know what outcome you want and the nonconscious mind can do the rest.
Annapolitan,
If you wanted to use Persaonl Relationship. I'd start with session B. What are you afraid of losing, what's missing in the relationship and consider also what you are willing to give and expect in return.
Off hand it looks like you want to control the relationship and he doesn't want to be controlled. If that's how it seems to you then that's your session A project. But in this case it is best to start with session B to help you identify what you feel is going wrong. You may then find out what is going on that causes you to behave the way you do, what sets him off and what sets you off. When you have an idea what that is then you have a prject for session A.
However you might just find that you need to stick with session B and the relationship right now is what it is. And use the Paraliminal to help you work through what you feel is missing or wrong with the relationship.
Alex
