Hi Alex,
Thanks for the thoughtful response. I'll give your suggestions a try and let you know what happens.
I've tried Self-Esteem Supercharger and Anxiety-Free in the past, and both prompted that pesky pop-up anger, but I've shied away from the Positive Relationships paraliminal, probably because I knew intuitively that it would bring up even more stuff from the distant past that I haven't wanted to deal with -- which is funny, since that reluctance is always the best indicator that something needs to be faced!
Thanks again --
Danielle