I also have weird dreams. Take a look at Part A of Dream Play. It isn't about remembering dreams (that's Part B), but about shaping them. I tried it for the first time last week when I went to bed. My intent was to dream a pleasant dream that would help me with weight loss. Not only did the paraliminal nearly put me to sleep (which Paul says it's designed to do, if that's what you want), I got a fabulous night's sleep and woke up fully energized and cheerful the next morning – and didn't remember a thing. Maybe the same will happen for your mom. Hope this helps.