Okay, so here it is, I’ve refined my goal somewhat and can articulate better. Perhaps what I’m looking to develop is the kind of Presence that lets any would be perpetrators know that I’m not the kind of woman they want to mess with. That makes them intuitively back off and run in the opposite direction.

Does this help any? How do I stop being the kind of person that has this kind of trouble in my life (assuming that if this guy is hanging around in my/our lives then there must be something within me that I can shift to be free of him (Forever) (sigh).

Last edited by Annabella; 10/02/17 08:12 PM.