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Hello everyone-
I've been trying for a very long time to find the right program for me. I've read so many stories on paraliminals and after doing so many subliminals, hypnosis, and time line therapy, I'm looking for something else.

Wanted to know if someone can advise which program(s) would be right for me. Here's my story (might be a bit long!!). I've been suffering from depression and anxiety for a very long time. I'm quite introverted and timid and definitely lacking in self-esteem.

My big problem is I don't accept myself and set expectations that are impossible to achieve. For example, I can't look at a magazine without comparing myself to the models. Yes, I know they are all air-brushed but it's difficult to look past. I take it very personally.

I do have a boyfriend who treats me like a queen, however, he'll be giong to a few bachelor parties this year and I'm terrified at the thought. He knows my fear but in this day and age, strippers are the norm so I have to accept it. I know my b/f won't do anything but it's the fear, the potential, the desire....plus that I don't look as sexy or perfect as what's out there. I can't even watch certain tv shows without panicking.

Now that I've unloaded - I wondered if there is hope for someone like me. I'm desperate to finally move past this but I fear that I will be like this for the rest of my life. The constant thoughts are really keeping me from living.

So, after all of that, can anyone recommend any paraliminals?

Thanks for taking the time to read this.

Kiki

Hi Kiki. Try self esteem supercharger, and maybe anxiety free. Also new history generator could help too.

Good luck.

George

Hi Kiki,

My recommendation is the Boundless reneval course. It's not the easiest course but it can do you wonders. It's different from the conventional hypnosis tapes, which might make it appealing to you. The course leads you to a journey to discover yourself. I think you need that most.

There's a couple of threads on this course here in the Paraliminal forum. Use the search function with "Boubless renewal" or "Bernie Saunders". You will find my experiences also.

My 2 cm

If you can afford it, the Abundance for Life course is quite a feast for putting your life into perspective and living a full life.

I think you're already ahead of the game, though, if you have already found a loving partner. The only one who you can control is yourself, so just focus on being faithful to him. The universe does not expect you to be responsible for what he does or doesn't do. If he is not faithful to you, that's his problem, and the universe will teach him what he needs to learn. You have no control over that, and you're not suppose to. So, release that worry and obligation from yourself. Channel that energy into more worthwhile pursuits, such as accepting yourself for the way you are right now.

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Originally posted by Kiki:
Hello everyone-

My big problem is...

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That phrase alone sets the stage for a Belief.

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...I don't accept myself and set expectations that are impossible to achieve. Kiki

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As long as you choose to believe that you're going to have a hard time making any changes or improving your self-esteem.

It's a paradox really because on the other hand by making that statement you have in fact accepted yourself and are reaching your expectations within your belief. (though you consciously may not like the outcome)

So I suggest starting with the Belief Paraliminal. To reach the truth that you are accepting yourself and making goals that you can and do reach. Then work with the New History Generator to change the habit of self-depreciation. You learned that some where in your past.

You are going to see some changes and you'll probably still notice some Anxiety accepting yourself as you are. So have Anxiety-Free ready.

For the 4th Paraliminal you might like to get Prosperity. Use it for generating gratitude for what you have got.

If you only get one Paraliminal it would be a choice between Belief and New History Generator.

Belief is good if you need to change your I cannots and other limiting self talk like I always (fail), I never do what I intend etc.

New History Generator. Going back to the past and making new choices. Allows you to change habits and remove limiting self-talk when you cannot pinpoint the Belief that is your undoing.

Alex

Thanks to everyone for giving me suggestions. I'm anxious for my life to change and I hope this is the right step!

Best,
Kiki