Does somebody have the same experience?

I Have used Paraliminals, Photoreading and other products from here for more than 5 years now...

I have noticed that I have become very sensitive to many things. Like using my intuition, at photoreading etc. I Can almost now feel where the information are in the books after i have photoread them.

And there is more.

I also got sensitive to films (drama, happy things - they actually make me cry or laugh!!! This is not normal!!!), I can easily get in the mood because i soak up so much at a time..

But the problem is: When I'm together with other people I quite easily get irritated by them, and just being together with some people can make me feel frustrated!! When I'm in the same room. Without talking to them! Not always, but sometimes.. Depending on the atmosphere there is there.

Is this not over the edge??? I think it's really great that I got so good at reading, thinking, problem solving, because I can feel so much, use my inituition etc. Make my life so much better. But how can I stop the negative sideeffects I feel when I'm together with People?? It's like when some one is in bad mood, I can almost feel it without they have said what's wrong! I Tried this here a couple of times: Then asked these people what's wrong. And there were actually something wrong! This is good. But it's not good if I'm in the cinema, and somebody sitting close to me is negative, then I have to change these feelings inside me (like using NLP),(change them) during the whole movie..

Or if I work and I'm in the same room with some one who is negative.. Then I have to deal with these feelings the whole day!! One single NLP-technique is not good here. Or a single paraliminal. Bacause the mood people are in are not always the same.

So how can I "shut off" the input in me of negative feelings from negative people? (Who put out negative energies...)

Any suggestions?

And by the way... It's not like I'm depressed or something like that. Because it's gone the minute I leave the people who are negative (without saying it).

I know exactly what you mean, that is the only reason I dont like school anymore. I dont use Paraliminals but I am increadibly sensative. I get bad vibes by all but about 2 people at school

I understand what you are saying 'cause I have always been able to feel other people's emotional energies since I was born. I got depressed when I got older because I think I was blocked up with too much energy that wasn't even mine. Had to learn how to release unwished for emotional energy states and sensations and be able to maintain a high energy impartial or very positive energy state which keeps other energies from sneaking in. I can't stay in a wide open feeling state out in the world 'cause I get over flooded with unhealthy vibes. Have to save that for my private meditational work.
Deborah

YOU TOO!!!!! I changed the way my education at the University was going on, bacause I got bad bad vipes from most of my "study-group". So I now study all alone.. It's 10 times more fun!! This is wrong I think!!

To Paul R. Scheele or Pete:
I think it's really great, The Photoreading Whole Mind System. It really works for me..

But there is one problem: After I've got so "open" to information (and energies) by using it, what use is Photoreading when I can't be around people to study????? I can only take the kind of education, where you have to study alone.

Will you make a course that really take care of this open channel, witch unfortunately also absorb negative energies from people? To make this energies useful to us photoreaders and paraliminal users? To people who are sensitive?

And I'm not the only one, who have this problem..I think.. Maybe after a few days some others beside Mastermind will respond to this here... Hope so.

Hi again,
I've also been training myself not to get drawn into interactions with people who are in an unconscious negative state 'cause they will just project it outward. I can interact with people who own their state and are aware of it happening and are making efforts to get out of it. That feels totally different. They take responsibility for not allowing the energy to project onto someone else especially a sensitve like yourself. As well I notice who is in a positive and creative high energy state. Then it's ok to open up and these folks are well worth hanging out with. But be careful. People have their good and bad days. Don't assume they are always one way or another all the time. Gravitate towards those manifesting an inner light. And if you can't find anybody like that sometimes then just focus attention back on your own inner world and inner work and continue working with yourself. Sometimes that's just the way it is for me - only have myself to work with. Although in my case I have 2 young children and they are very clear emotionally. So it is very purifying and uplifting for me to interact with them. Good luck.
Deborah

And not only Mastermind but DJ also...

Hi DJ!

I know what you mean.. I just have not found many who can controll their state.

I can. I'm good at NLP, and be the way I love the tapeset of Paul McKenna: "Success for Life".. It's really great, where you learn to control and create states.. Like total confidence, joy, love, any state you like, even so effective, that you can attract these energies, that you put out into the world, to you. And you also learn that on an unconscious level, by hypnotic trances. A little like the paraliminals, but still not the same. It's more like a hypnotic induction, but you learn to feel really great, when you want to.

Still there is this problem of being so sensitive to negative energies.. How can you use these negative energies from other people, in the way, we want it, the minute, we are around others? So we can feel good almost all the time?

A new course whould be great Paul?

Kim

Maybe some kind of social course good be a good idea..

Iv never used NLP before, but I can control my state rather well (I feel). But not how I feel other people, photoreading is not what opened this channel tho. Iv always had it.

I don't know if this might sound far-fetched or like New-Age hippie BS to you, but maybe try buying some books on psychic development or protection; they usually talk about how you can protect yourself from picking up people's negative energy ...

hope this helps,
stefan

I am sensitive in this way too, DJ, Kim and Mastermind. One way I used to deal with it was to kind of close up or keep the people at a safe distance. But I have decided that that is no way to go through life, to live. In my case, I don't think it's induced by PRWMS. I've had it all my life.

One thing I've noticed is that I find myself sometimes (too often) going off into some fantasy where I actually feel better, but that's not a good solution, because one has to come back, and the problem is still there. It's a habit I am trying to break because it wastes a lot of time and it doesn't solve anything, sort of like taking drugs. I think it's a coping mechanism I've developed since childhood. Any advice in this will be very much appreciated.

I have had a similar problem all my life. Knowing vibes even knowing when someone is quitting the earthplane.

My solution was only discovered in the last year... read all the psychic books on protection same as nlp really ...wears off.

The solution is to let go... release, and keep doing that until you yourself are putting out energy... positive energy... when you are putting out high vibes you can't be pulling in low vibes... some people will still drain you but notice and release.

Don't "own" other peoples downer emotions.. also the knowing can be quite handy sometimes so whatever they are I still like to be aware of them. When I am high I can better help those on a downer or take more positive action on the inner information.

If you have to deal with people who are energy "leeches" and you have no other options, fold your arms or cross your hands discreetly and lock you ankles together. You close off your engergy to them so they have to look for someone else. Look slightly pass them and turn your body slightly not to face them straight on. (Self preservation when you come across someone who wants you to do everything for them.)

Just be aware of getting yourself caught in a downer trap just because you notice that someone else in on a downer doesn't mean you have to own it too. If you can't help them let it go.

Alex

[This message has been edited by AlexK (edited April 20, 2002).]

I too struggle with this and it can be extremely painful at times. While I was born with this, it has intensified as I have integrated PRWMS.

Interestingly enough, I am in the middle of going through Anna Wise's The High Performance Mind. She attributes this to too much Delta. I'll just quote what she says:

"If you can learn to expand yourself while you are receiving these stimuli, you will not need to reject them or defend yourself against them ... Rather, you experience the stimuli, acknowledge them, honor them, and let them pass through you without letting them stick or feeling responsible for fixing them."

Hope this helps.

Hi stefan and everybody else,
Your reply doesn't sound weird at all. I sometimes work on strengthening my aura or posting energy guardians around myself. It helps that I work at home. My work space sustains and nurtures my own energies which in turn has a beneficial influence on the people who come into the space to work with me. 99% of the time whatever stuff folks bring to my house just dissolves at the door and the other 1% is long gone by the time we're finished. Just remember that people in a negative stuck state probably wouldn't want to stay there if they knew there was a way out of it. So consider finding subtle ways to help them nudge gently out of it. And for those who cling stubbornly to their suffering, let go, release. Don't get hung up on trying to "fix" things for them. People gotta want their own change. Sometimes you just have to step back and let people go with their own lives.
Deb

Hi!

Well, until now there seems to be two ways to handle this sensitivity problem.

1. Not fighting these negative energies from other people (meditate later).
2. Fighting the energies (so they don't get close to you. NLP/states).

But something have to be done. I'm playing with it...

I have read some good books now about this subject, and it really seems to me, that no one has the same answer. Some says it's best to relax, and then "clear" yourself later from negative energies you recived from others, like "brushing your aura to get rid of negative energies, which may have been stock in it", or like "kanalising out these negative feelings, like release/relaxing". The OTHER kind of view is to be more in control of your states, like using NLP, so you can feel, what you really want (not escaping, but to get results you want), so youre not hindered by negative feelings, or like crossing your arms/legs to get rid of these feelings.

Of course there is an option also of helping others. Because they then must feel bad in some way, if they sent out negative energies.. To get rid of this, then help them out. But if youre in a supermarked, cinema, then it's probably not a so good idea to talk to strangers just like that*g*.

There is really one great thing of being so sensitive! Youre good at using your intuition, problem solving, and you can easily set yourself into other peoples problem, and help them to solve these problems.

And if youre sensitive, then you will maybe get even better at NLP or "meditating/releasing/relaxing", learning to relax and create states, and feel the way you really want to be.

Does anybody know how they can use these negative energies in another way?
And if there is someone out there, who is really good at dealing with theese energies in another kind of way.. Please hit a post .

Wow... .... I don't believe it... This discussion has hit me right on the spot! Whew!

First, it was a relief to know that there are others! I have picked other peoples bad moods all my life and it has been getting worse with PhRing. I sort of PhRed other people and their moods (I know my state was close to the PhRing state).

Second, my mind started to create solutions.. I asked myself: "Well, I have been too sensitive to other people's moods but I don't want to be anymore. Let's see, what can I do? What do I want instead? -??......? -... ?! -Aahaa, I want to be COMFORTABLE even though there are people with bad moods around me!! I want to be ME and have MY feelings and not other people's bad feelings! What choices do I have...?" -And that's when my mind started to explore. .....

Today I have found my solution and it's very simple... I just put music in my head instead of hearing other people's negative selftalk! (...because that's what I was picking up, other people's selftalk... that's what I was sensitive to!!). OK, I had to find the right piece of music first (it's on the Ocean's eleven soundtrack), but it works!

So, THANK YOU ALL GUYS OUT THERE!!! Your discussion has helped me a ducking lot! I wanted to share my joy with you! -Purjo

InTheFlow, are there two of you posting under this name?

Hi again.

To Hel: No, it's only one person . Why*s*?. I have also posted on non-eksistent relationship, the rings on BeyondHuman etc...

By the way, I think the music thing is about creating a state. I think you will feel something different by not bringing "the negative vibes" from others into the conscious mind when trying to hear music. A little like creating a state when using NLP.

And thanks to you! We are quite a few now who has got much more sensitive to others negative vibes, after we learned photoreading.

I have not tried this music technique yet, but when I hear music from my walkman, and I'm among others, then it feels quite good. Especially if it's something I really like .

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I have read something interesting about communikation: "You are a master communicater, if you get the RESPONS in the listener, you want to have!"

And that compared to being sensitive can really work results I think, so we (=us sensitive people) can be in charge of getting the results we want with others. So instead of blaming others of trying to make us sensitive people feel negatively in some way, why not turn this around to our advantage! Like:

- When talking to a person, sensitive people knows how they feel in the first place. You can feel it from just standing near to them. So if we want to have some results from this person you are standing near to, like getting him/her to drop by tomorrow for a small talk (or anything else you would like to have), then you have a really really good starting point from there on. Where we can get this person to "want to drop by" tomorrow. Procedure: Feel how this person feels. Then talk to him/her. Notice the respons feelings you get from the person. Not only what he/she says, but the respons of what he/she is sending out of signals/feelings/energies... Then work from there on and keep on communicating. And there are unlimited ways of communicating, being funny, persuade, relaxing.. What you want..

I'm not talking about getting a controlfreak, but just to be more in charge of the situation, when you feel the vibes so much. People still have to be spontanous now and then .

I think it's quite a change to shift this attention, instead of being "controlled by other peoples negative vibes", why not turn this around to our advantage, to get the results we really want with other people.

+ When you're in control in the situation, you can relax a lot when talking to others. (sshhh.. you have a secret they don't know! good at feeling how others feel, and then
turning this into you're advantage).

I have only tried this a few times now today, but when I do this, i feel quite good of being in charge of the vibes for a change*g*. Funny to play with..

Still, if anybody are having problems of beeing sensitive to others vibes, or if any are handling these negative vibes from others like in supermarkets, cinemas etc. in other ways.. Just write write.

Kim

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But the problem is: When I'm together with other people I quite easily get irritated by them, and just being together with some people can make me feel frustrated!! When I'm in the same room. Without talking to them! Not always, but sometimes.. Depending on the atmosphere there is there.

Is this not over the edge??? I think it's really great that I got so good at reading, thinking, problem solving, because I can feel so much, use my inituition etc. Make my life so much better. But how can I stop the negative sideeffects I feel when I'm together with People?? It's like when some one is in bad mood, I can almost feel it without they have said what's wrong! I Tried this here a couple of times: Then asked these people what's wrong. And there were actually something wrong! This is good. But it's not good if I'm in the cinema, and somebody sitting close to me is negative, then I have to change these feelings inside me (like using NLP),(change them) during the whole movie..

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I'm just going to toss out a few ideas for you...

1. Use your proficiency in intuition to solve yet this problem.

2. Being irritated by others could just be a projection on your part that needs to be addressed.

3. You have a higher calling to attend to. Your sensitivity needs to be put to use to help others and not avoid them.

good luck

You might want to try the Sedona Method, it's a technique for releasing all feelings wheather good or bad on the spot. Once you've fully released on something, it's gone for good. All uncomfortable comes from somewhere inside you. You could use every uncomfortable situation for strong permanent concrete growth. It's available in a tape set and its featured on the Euphoria! course. The Focusing technique by Eugene Gendlin is also an effective technique. Hope this helps.

Omg! This struck a chord for me. I was feeling 'bugged' all day for no reason and just reading this thread made me feel better.

Knowing that we are sensitive, the awareness in itself is power, and acknowledging that those energies or vibes are not ours is also power because our knowing and awareness means we have noticed something needs to be done, undone or changed and we can respond adequately and like Magaret said, we can use our intuition and ask for solutions.

Master Chunyi li has a video on youtube where he suggests how to protect ourselves from negative energies using Qigong https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pCGZVEqKldo. Its really simple too. You can try it and see how it goes.


Also using one of the paraliminals or direct learning for the solutions we come up with that way we respond automatically in those scenarios.

We can also ask ourselves, 'how can I protect my energy when i am around people with different energies?' and see what comes.

I noticed I tend to freeze in these situations and i react but i want to be more proactive and respond in ways that support the life i am choosing.

I would like to know how its going with you guys. I know this thread is a bit old but hopefully we can keep it going.

You are a sensitive person & that's why. They call it being a psychic sponge. Normally they say empaths are like this.
There are some techniques you can use to stop this. If you're good at visualisation, imagine a pink tube like a lipstick over your aura so as to only allow love in or out. Or you can take Australian Bush Flower essences, Angelsword + Fringed Violet.
There are essential oils also (I shared some info on the post called "solar plexus stuckness)....
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Sensitivity is said to be both a curse & a blessing
its like being a psychic sponge. Normally they say empaths are like this.
There are some techniques you can use to stop this. If you're good at visualisation, imagine a pink tube like a lipstick over your aura so as to only allow love in or out. Or you can take Australian Bush Flower essences, Angelsword + Fringed Violet.
There are essential oils also (I shared some info on the post called "solar plexus stuckness)....
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