I feel real bitter in my attitude to relationships or love in general. I don't know even if I want to help myself. I just went through a shocking break up, with a girl I was really close to. It messed me up. I am just really becoming pessimistic about love and relationships. Like its all about material things. Money and other shallow things. What ever happen to two people loving each other despite differences, income, looks. Someone could answer me if they want, I don't even know if I care anymore.

These Paraliminals might be helpful:

Automatic Pilot (to get ride of negative self-talk and self-sabotage)

New Option Generator (to give your other-than-conscious additional ways to respond)

New History Generator (to clean up emotions from your breakup so that it doesn't linger into your future)