Aloha rajsadasivan,
When you get specific to your home space like this, it tends to work better as a 20-minute consultation call. That way we get a copy of your floor plan faxed/emailed to us and we're both seeing the same thing.
That aside, I'll put some things out there regarding you inquiries.
This maybe similar to the house you see in the Essentials DVD. I’s not recollecting at this time if they included the clip of setting a focus item to the left of the counter and stove to direct the flow. Not seeing the entry/kitchen situation personally, I’d be leaning toward putting a green plat to the side of the kitchen you want the focus and Qi to go, rather than straight to the kitchen, stove, etc. Like I said, without seeing it…
I'm not concerned about the door mirror at this time, once again; it would be good to see the flow of the house.
A person can hang an image in their best direction and place the activation card behind it if they would like.
She goes into steps of selling a home on a later DVD. No need to sneak lights outside with out permission ; ) There may be a variety of things holding the house, but to use the light example on your case, stand at your front door and take a picture into the apartment. Develop it and set it up with a light shining against the back of it for 3-4 hours when it's dark out. You could use a lamp or something to not go through so many flashlight batteries, but make sure it's safe to have the lamp or whatever going that long at night.
A mirror reflecting the bed is a mirror reflecting a bed. Consider draping it at night.
Much Love, Shawn