Hmmm, you might want to try a Body Mastery set, but it's a bit of an investment. I think Wendi has something on her site (www.wendi.com), and I know that most of her products have an analog on
www.hyptalk.com. When I decided to re-create myself as a body builder or weight lifter back in 1997 or 1998, I went through a rather typical human reaction. First, I defined the problem. Second, I did research. Third, I threw a lot of money at it. Fourth, I have it a half-hearted attempt. Fifth, I gave up after less than a month.
Because this cycle is the cycle of learned failure, I would say the best paraliminal to use is Personal Genius. Those areas where we manifest genius are the areas where we don't give up. They may not be the areas that come easiest to us. In fact, the most powerful innovations seem to be at the hands of people who are forced to innovate because the conventional way doesn't WORK for them.
If you have Natural Brilliance, either as a PLC or just the book, you might want to look into doing the Natural Brilliance "negotiation" on working out. As you've said, you really hate to do it. That means that there is a lot of leverage keeping you from doing it. On the other hand, you're on here asking for something to reprogram you into wanting to do it, so there must be some gain.
Right now, I'm experimenting. This weekend, I ordered the Spring Forest Qigong. I'm thinking that first defining the energy needed for the body to change is a proper prelude to an actual visable and noticable change. If I decide that I'd like to start lifting weights or doing arrobics (I can sign up for the YMCA without paying a joining fee, due to perks through my present place of work, and I may sign up for the Tai Chi class and access to the pool), I'll make sure that I have enough Qi to make it fun.
At any rate, one book you may wish to consider is "Mind Pump." It's a book on the proper psychology of weight training.