Forums IMPORTANT: PLEASE READ Paraliminals, Paraliminal Resets, Paraliminal Walkabouts, Natural Brilliance, Sonic Access Looking for Goal Achievement buddy

I have 2 goals this year that have been ever so challenging to complete.

Every new year’s eve, I make a bunch of goals. This year I made 7 serious short term ones – out of which
• home based business – successfully completed
• weight loss - on target
• charitable donations – on target
• eliminate self destructing behaviour - work in progress but successful thus far
• Life partner - challenge!!! Am just not getting there, don’t know why!
• Big money – challenge!!
• Educational – on target

So – I was looking for someone to work with, to achieve the 2 challenging goals. Money right now is not so much an issue – as LOA is working for me – but still, I would like to see BIG MONEY so I can become a home owner (mortgage free!).

Love is also eluding me. I know I am doing something wrong, not vibrating the what I want and focusing too much on what I don’t want – so I need help to work with someone – who has the same interest.

Some people have weight loss and workout buddies so I thought maybe I could try the buddy system with the two goals.

Apart from LOA, I am using following paraliminals, not all on the same day but make a point of listening 2 a day (one sometime during the day at work and one at night just before hitting the bed) Belief paraliminals, NHG and IPM.

I just need help drawing a ‘plan’. I don’t like to fish for men on eHarmony type websites and I certainly don’t like going to bars just for that purpose. As for big money – well, I have done all that I can (with home business) and now I am really looking to hit it big and not work 8 hours a day. I need to be financially independent so I can work when I want, where I want, if I want. They say dream big – so I am!

Interested? PM me please.

I promised myself I will get married this year - so help me make it happen!

Not volunteering, but just wanted to say I think this is a great idea, D2C! I've heard of others getting together to help one another manifest, and it does seem to work. I hope you'll let us know of your results once you've manifested these goals.

I have a suggestion about your life partner issue.

Get relaxed and list all the benefits and reason you can think of that life is better without a partner.

There could also be the underlying... is this realistic, what if getting married means I need to move or give up the business, what if it takes me away from building the business. Is there enough tine to know I'm choosing the right partner?

See if you can uncover and list all the reasons why not getting married this year might be a better option. I'm suggesting it so you can address those reasons consciously. As you know the emotions and underlying non-conscious thoughts and beliefs may be the reason you haven't met that someone.

Alex

Hi D2C,

I pm'd you. Maybe we can chat together and see where it leads. I'm needing help getting direction as usual... hehe. Think it.. Presently I am listening to Natural Brilliance. Plan on staying with that for another week. Then I might move on to Prosperity. Also I am listening to Ideal Weight again. It helped me before but then I thought I didn't need it and on came some of the pounds I lost. Would like to lose at least 50 - 60 pounds.

I am relating to a lot of what you are saying tho...

cheerio~* scooter

Now that you've identified what it is that you don't want to lose when you go into a relationship there is no reason not to have one that fits your desires and perhaps decide what areas are open to compromise. Like getting up and going when you want to go somewhere. If you want a relationship to be there then perhaps having a partner who's willing to let you have time for yourself or join you with sudden urges would be the ideal for your relationship.

You've found why non-consciously you've been stopping yourself from having a relationship like one you experienced in the past. That doesn't mean you cannot have a different relationship with someone else does it? Now you can go into a relationship with a clear idea of what you truly want and it may be a partnership without marriage for a while. Especially if that part of you still wants a relationship.

Alex

Hiya Scooter!

I hope I have not scared you with my ACTION PLAN! LOL!!
Anyway, I just emailed you the questionnaire - let me know when you are ready to discuss it.

I am plugging away.... hopefully we will catch up with each other in the 2 areas that we need to work on ... together.

D2C,

I think you are a little more ahead of me in pursuing your goals. I'm not sure if I am ready to proceed at the pace you are at. So I will have to go at my pace.

What are the two areas that we need to work on together?

scooter~?