I have been in my wonderful relationship for 19 years, there have been phases where we have had to give a higher priority to things other than each other.
We even had to live apart for 2 years while he was away working, we stuck through the hard emotional times and it is worth it.

Only you can tell if your relationship is worth accepting that you aren't always going to be the center of your partners life.
Just think that if you work through this problem maybe in a few years your partner might be posting something like
"Since we have had children my wife doesn't find me attractive anymore"

Has this started since you moved into the new home?

I have just started my Diamond Feng Shui course and your bed may not be facing a good direction for him, Maybe if you changed it to his relationship direction you might get back the man you want.

oztinks