The best Paraliminals for finding a partner, Personal Relationship, New History Generator, Anxiety Free and probably Instantaneous Personal Magnetism.
Automatic Pilot is for when you know what needs to be done but keep putting off the work. It's for making your habits needed when working toward an outcome more automatic.
If that's your one and only Paraliminal break it down.
First listen for getting free and confident talking to prospects. See yourself chatting, laughing, getting to know and feel comfortable with someone special. Once you've done that a few times (say 3 listening.) Go out and see how you feel what happens. Repeat if necessary. Then next set focus on the dating, going out and being comfortable with that one special person.
You might then need to put the Paraliminal aside for say 30 days and see what happens in your life. During that time notice what's happening, If you see real progress. Chatted with some potential, maybe even dated a couple of people you can start using the Paraliminal for the more serious step of commitment.
Trying to build it all at once is where you are currently meeting with internal disagreement. So break it down into stages rather than an all in one set.
AlexK