A page and a half of limiting beliefs. I would say that Belief is a good tape for you. You're already thinking along those lines, so Belief may be the best match tape for you.
Belief works exactly like that. It works at replacing unwanted beliefs with wanted ones.
I would suggest looking at them and try grouping them. Can you come up with an overall belief that includes many of those on the list. Here is a belief that is supposed to be common to all really successful people.
"There is not such thing as failure". They really believe this. Expanding on the idea to make it seem less trivial. Everything is just feedback, which tells you how close you are to your goal and which direction to move towards your goal. This is the root of the phrase the Universe rewards action.
My personal version of this is, "Everything that happens to me is for my greater good". Expanding again. This means that any so called bad stuff is just putting a challenge in my way that I need to learn how to overcome, so that I'm ready for a more important challenge later. A cornier version which I don't identify with is, "Anything that doesn't kill me makes me stronger".
These and others are really just various express of fundamentally the same belief. People holding them are far less limited by fear of success or failure and maybe other things.
I think that IPM is usable for this, but Belief may be the match for you. I would say that for a few dollars it's worth checking out. However, if a part of you is just looking for a quick fix; the next miracle pill, then you won't may not find it in the Belief tape.
Many people skim from solution to solution and really advoiding the problem. You've obviously done a lot of thinking about you're issues so this isn't probably you issue. However, the Universe doesn't reward thinking it rewareds action. Try something and see what the universe tells you.
One last note, I would suggest to anyone using paraliminal tapes. Learn a little about NLP "Neural Linguistic Programming". I know only a little but I believe it makes the tapes far more effective. It's definitely incorporated in the tapes and their guides, but many people probably gloss over or trivialize statements like notice what improvement are happening in your life.
You can search most of the forums, and there is lots of free stuff on the web about NLP.
Happy journey and sending love,
Iam2