The existence of contraction does not justify speaking from contraction.
Speaking from a place of expansion does not mean you cannot criticize, be stern, disagree, or call for someone to accept responsibility. Not at all.
When sitting in expansion, when residing in the higher frequencies, you express your message sans contraction.
If you are not sure of what I mean by residing in the higher frequencies or if it seems a bit esoteric, that's what you experience in Jeddah's "Seeds of Enlightenment." In that course you explore the structure of existence. In her next course, "Embracing Freedom," you explore what it means in your day-to-day life. Jeddah's programs are not about gaining an intellectual understanding, but actually experiencing each concept. They will give you plenty of OMG moments where you finally get what our lives are all about.