Hi greenie! I have had interesting experiences involving areas of my life where I have failed to take action when it's time. In particular, I have weight issues and I want to find my soulmate. Often, when I make an attempt to take action in these areas, I fail miserably, and then give up again. When I examined these situations closely, I identified a common problem, which explains pretty adequately the factors underlying my indecision and procrastination in these areas of life: lack of hope. After repeated failures attempting something, we tend to lose hope if it'll ever work for us. In Paul Scheele's words, that's the very definition of a "stuck state." I find the New Option Generator to be the very best out there on cultivating hope and optimism. In pulling me out of the self-induced trance I've placed myself in, I feel curious and my entire world changes in a few minutes. I am able to see my goals with fresh eyes. I achieve astounding clarity because I can see a) relationships between my various goals that weren't obvious before the sessions (this, in and of itself, will lift your depression and dissolve your learned helplessness) and b) opportuntities right in front of me that would help me achieve my desires that weren't obvious before. In resolving my double binds and paradoxes, I sometimes end up redefining my goal in ways that dissolve many problems I felt helpless about that seemed to exist in isolation before and transform my outlook on life dramatically in a matter of a few hours. I achieve this when I combine New Option Generator with Self-Esteem Supercharger, Intuition Amplifier, Personal Genius, Prosperity and Youthful Vitality. I often can't believe the results. It's like waking up depressed and then brimming with passion and vitality through the middle of the day. I must caution you, however, that New Option Generator is the key because it provides the freedom necessary to make the rest of the Paraliminals work when you're stuck and maximize their power. With New Option Generator, my bounce back muscles have matured significantly, to the point that I now love it when life presents me a challenge that is beyond my capabilities. Hope you find this post helpful.