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#81266 02/15/13 12:36 AM
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I need Paraliminal suggetsions:

I seem to be having problems with my attitude about work. I'm a teacher and I find I have no patience for the discipline problems - the really bad ones not the "normal" kid stuff. I've been teaching for 30 years and find myself getting angry with two in particular and then administration because they won't do anything to help. It takes a lot to make me truly angry (frustrated yes but not angry).

My classroom aide and I have both been hit several times this year and to me that is unacceptable. I've been hit before but it is was always delt with by administration.

Yesterday and again today I was on the verge of just walking out. I've never had that urge before no matter how tough my day got.


Suggestions please. I need my equilebrium back and the firmness / confidence to state my case with administration and the ability to stick to it in a professional manner (without anger or depression.



Oh and I need to be able to release the stress when I come home so that I'm not dragging my husband and son through the drama as well.

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lisa #81277 02/19/13 09:48 AM
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Use the Personal Relationship Paraliminal. Seems to me they know how to push buttons.

Also use Sales Leap. You need to start selling the idea that the behaviour / attitude these two are employing is not in their best interest.

Also use Self-Esteem Supercharger... especially if you almost walked out.

Deep Relaxation at the end of the day will also be a good idea.

Alex

lisa #81363 03/10/13 05:44 PM
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Thanks Alex! I'm in a much better place now - I can deal with the behaviors (children and administration) without getting frustrated or angry (which just was NOT me at all)- I also used Holiday Cheer a couple of times.



Lisa


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