Uniquesoul,
You said, "getting into a relationship."
Think more along the lines of you're already in some sort of a relationship with her, it's maybe just not good enough yet. I understand a bit about where you're coming from because I once knew a girl who said to me "What relationship?!@!", when I asked her to rate our relating. The way she was defining the word relationship wasn't helpful to improve a relationship, because she thought it either is or isn't. Quite sad. I guess one can feel quite lonely if you think in terms of is or isn't.
Relating is a process not a thing that is plonked on your head all of a sudden. We are constantly relating. The NLP presupposition is: "You cannot not communicate." We are all communicating constantly with those in our lives even if we're not opening our mouths, just on different levels.
John Gray, in his book "Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus on a Date", said that when a man thinks he is in one position on the dating continuum and a woman thinks she is on another and this is made known to either of them, the rapport is instantly broken, it's like a sinking feeling. I realise that this breaking of rapport can easily happen when one is thinking in terms of a relationship being or not being. The probability that you are both totally in a relationship when you both totally decide you are in a relationship is quite small. The holding of the belief that it will be plonked on your head at one endpoint, limits all the rapport that you can have in between.
A relationship is a process, not a thing.
A relationship is a journey, not a destination.