The way the universe works, is that it always brings us back what we send out. Like standing in a room full of mirrors, we see in the world only what we project upon it. When our love life seems to suffer, we need only look at our relationship with ourselves to discover the state of our prospects with others in the future. Oddly enough, we are always getting what we want. Sooner or later, we realize that what we once wanted isn't the way it has to be in the future. You can have a lot more, when you are ready to get past your fears of being wounded by the world and needing to protect yourself from being hurt.
The Relationships tape can best be described as a way to raising of a gigantic transmitting antenna. It helps you broadcast the new message that you are ready for a new life in relationship to others (but first to yourself and your fears and wounds).
Of course, what you send out comes back to you multiplied. Dwell on lack or limitation, fear or loathing, and it comes back. As you dwell on your openness and willingness to be open, vulnerable, and loving to yourself in the presence of others, you attract those who are also ready to do the same.
After listening to the tape, get out of the house and put yourself into situations where you can encounter others. Don't make it hard for others to find you. Expand your sphere of influence. The more clear you are about the loving relationship you have with yourself and the world around you, the more abundantly the love is returned.
Now in my 25th year of marriage, I can say that truth, love, and simplicity are the only values worth pursuing in a relationship. Those values represent the end of all suffering that relationships can bring. That's purely and editorial comment, because the Relationships tape does not specify what values you should aspire to.
