Babayada,
Sure I've gone through many programs, enough to know how effective they are. Believe me it takes a lot of time, effort and resources. A lot of these programs are not very effective.
I get really tired of the same old, same old stuff. "been there, done that"
Realize that everything in the universe is energy. Even matter is mostly empty space with atoms of spinning particles which break down further into superstrings in at least 11 dimensions or more. We're not familiar with all of the possible dimensions and parallel universes beyond this one.
Thoughts are energy and create thought forms which color your energy signature. Thought forms multicast their presence to others and like attracts like. It can be used for remote influence, remote seduction, or it can be used to remove those ingrained patterns that keep you in this stuck state. Your emotions can change your DNA (see http://www.heartmath.org/research/research-overview.html ) which in turn can influence your own behavior.
It's a challenge to recommend stuff here because different people require different approaches and there are varying levels of development in any public forum. The standard disclaimer always applies - YMMV. Most people are not interested in moving beyond a certain level, even if it's way beyond where they're at now.
Truth is relative to each level. what's true for one level is not so for another level. As the Buddha evolved, he had to continuously revise his teachings. There is a spiritual path out there which goes far beyond any religious or spiritual system that most people will encounter, but it is not for the faint of heart, and I've never mentioned it on any forum.
Que Sera Sera & C'est La Vie!