i had a conclusion after a discusion with myself that what realy change me or anyone is changing what we are believe in in our lives
i noticed that realy i need to get postive believes instead of negative belives
i realy cannot live with these negative belives 
i realy appreciate if any photoreader in this forum give me any of his believes or values to empower myself ( good believes or values about life )
sometimes realy we have to change negative believes that pain us more than pleasure us
i think this will help me in my life and with photoreading 
well it is something from nlp and modeling
[This message has been edited by TJ (edited August 10, 2003).]
