It's Brilliant that you can explain what Anthony Robbins purpose would be for the book...
How about yours? Is this really the only reason you're photoreading the book?
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I want to be confident and highly skilled/competant in its knowledge and its application simply because it makes me feel good.
... because it makes you feel good. Don't you mean you would expect it to make you feel good when you actually achieve that? So, How do you know it makes you feel good? I know you're saying you don't like the fustrations of not being able to answer maths problems that have been taught with ease. So it is apparent that right now you're not feeling good.
You know another way that you can get away from feeling bad about not being able to answer questions with ease and aviod having to discover that the subjective goal of feeling good isn't true. That getting the answers doesn't make you feel good? You don't do it.
Set a real objective goal something can measure. Feeling good is subjective. A choice you can make about anything. It certainly isn't a purpose if to Feel good right now reading is going to make you feel bad, apprehensive, confused. None of those things represent your goal and in fact remove you from that emotion.
So when I ask what is your purpose. Can you state what you want to know from the book? How you would know that you've found what you're looking for?
If you ask an olympic metalist what his goal was... they are not going to say because it made me feel good. They will say they wanted to challenge themself to see how far they could get. They say they were aiming to win the gold metal. Their purpose was to stand on the podium and receive that metal. Did they feel good? Yep but that wasn't what motivated them. What motivated them was their reason for doing it. If it was to feel good... I doubt they would have gone through the pains of the effort involved.
If you could answer the questions on a test and get 90%+ correct would that be a reason to feel good? I think so. So what do you need to do to get 90% on the test? To be able to answer 'those' questions. Everything else is redundant. How do you know when you've covered the likely questions? You learn them in class. Teacher explains them. They are in the textbook for that year.
How do you get to know that information? you fully activate those textbooks. Checking with yourself that you're learning what you need. How do you get to the point where you can handle those questions with ease? You've made yourself familar with them. You've activated the textbooks, you've run a few mock test. Reason you're doing that. Your purpose is to get 90% or better on that test.
Does that ultimately make you feel good? Sure.
But why do something if the goal is only to feel good.
Choice... have a cup of coffee read the comics = feel good right now. Or
Work through maths book struggle with equasions so that maybe I will feel good later. 99% of the population is going to read the comic the 1% who actually does the maths... feels good while doing it. Human nature wants to feel good now and if you try to defer it to the future then you're not going to get anywhere.
Sure ultimately the end emotion is the same.
Purpose however is your reason for doing it and already feeling good about doing it because you're achieving an immediate goal that relates to your ultimate purpose.
Alex