Do not converge your eyes. That means you are using cross eyed focus. A soft gaze is achieved by relaxing your focus. Noticing both pages of the book with the same focus one would use while driving to see what is happening out the sides while one is still looking straight ahead.
This is actually easier to achieve than going cross-eyed (convergent gaze). The problem with going cross eyed is you are still trying to use your primary focus and not your peripheral vision. You will not get the feeling of familarity if you are trying to see with primary focus. When you cross-view, the muscles inside your eye that control the focusing lens contract strongly and shorten.
PhotoReading requires a divergent gaze.
Using divergent gaze you are looking into the distant. Like the distant stare a daydreamer has and you can achieve the same results by switching your mind into the daydream state while PhotoReading. This means you are looking beyond the book.
To avoid the error of crossing your eyes use the imaginary X-Technique. Lightly soften your gaze by relaxing your eyes. Notice the pattern of white on the page. Don't worry about the blip page. It will show up when you have PhotoRead enough books.
If you want to know more about seeing 3D images check this link http://www.vision3d.com/3views.html
For PhotoReading we want the focal point to be beyond the book as in the first diagram for 3D viewing.
Alex