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I've just had a revelation from you. We have very different maps of what we think of self-love.

In my map:

I thought you were criticizing me telling me I love myself already and don't need to work on it, as if self-love is something to be ashamed of. I do think I can't be proud of loving myself.

In your map:

You honour self-love. You were congratulating me on my efforts to love myself.

The difference: I feel that self-love is something to be ashamed of, and you feel it is something to be proud of. A Meta-State of pride for self-love, that must feel quite different to what I experience. I was trying to defend myself saying that I don't love myself much, trying to appear correct in what I thought was your view(that you were criticizing me for loving myself too much). I always thought that self-love must be something to play down, and not to mention in polite company.

Vita-man this is an absolute revelation: Why should I feel ashamed of loving myself? Why shouldn't I feel pride at loving myself? That would totally empower me!!!

The next step for me then is to integrate the Meta-State being proud of loving myself.

Thanks Vita-man! You're part of a miracle right now!

You have gained interesting result from the book. Could please let us know the name of the author as there are several books with title "Sourcebook of Magic" in Amazon.

Thank You

You can make a justified generalization about yourself: You do miracles!

KoDude

The main author is: L. Michael Hall

Congratulations! Finding a new point of view to self-love is a big thing. I hope the very best for you!

The Sourcebook of Magic has a pattern for self-love too.

Photoreading the Sourcebook's patterns repeatedly has been very beneficial.

I'm hoping that many others will try it and find beneficial results.