Hello from Denmark!
(If you're from Denmark too, then you are more than welcome to hit the reply . Interested in connections?)
I have used allmost all the paramiliminals, Photoreading, Brilliance etc. from here for more than 5 years now, to accomplish my goals. Have got some of my goals, but there is one problem, that always comes into focus:
Here ind Denmark, people are unfortunately not so positive against each other. Maybe because we have the "Jante-law", if you know what that is? It's something like: "Don't think you are more worth than everybody else". Here people often put and keep each other down. Especially when somebody tells another person about his/her success, then people very often get really really envy and jalous, instead of praising that person. People here often take this person down bacause of envy and jalousi. To put people down, is also a way of getting success! Feeling better about oneself. And after this person is down, you can focus on your own success.
I have often noticed people getting so envy about somebody's success, that they could not sleep at night, being totally angry at that person, calls this person bad things.. Incredible!! And after they have taken this person down, they start to build their own success. And people often use other people here to do that.
But why is the "janta-law" so much of infuence here in Denmark? Maybe because everybody pays so much in taxes, about 50% of your earnings! Often more. The more more you earn, the more you have to pay in taxes here.. Some even pay 65%! And even more. It's quite difficult to get rich here in Denmark because of the taxes. People here are often equal. Just take a "party night" in a danish town. And you look at people, and then ask yourself: Who is rich here?? Ehhmm nobody seem to be really rich.. All really alike.
What really is power here in Denmark is: How good you are socially! If you want an education, then you have to be really good socially. Know how to get good friends, know how to handle personal and interpersonal problems, know how to handle people, use people (else you will be used for their purpose), know how to handle your enemies (=jalouse people), take friends from others, so you get what you want etc.
And believe me. The people who has power in Denmark are really strong on social strategies. The ones, who are strong on social strategies can easily take an education (=handle other peoples problems, getting friends, avoid beeing put down), get money, house, car, get a beautiful girlfriend, having lot of friends, social status is the biggest power in Denmark. Not so much how good you are at something. They will often get put down, if they only can do that. And I have seen a lot, who got that!
So the money, if you live in Denmark, comes not only and alone from, how good you remember things, how good you remember facts, grades in school, how fast you read, how good you learn things, but more on how you handle other people as well. Else you will not survive.
*** So my question is: Are there any really good books, infos or personal learning courses on "Social Strategies". Because using paraliminals, photoreading, Decisive Action etc. are not so much on social stuff.
I have used the paraliminal tape "Relationships", and it,s really good. BUT it only tries to get along with people if problems arises in a relationship, and to be open and attract others..
In denmark you need more choises: You can be 1. friends/talking to each other/getting along --- 2. donīt care about them, accepting that they are in the same room as you, but you don't like them/do nothing to them --- 3. Fight them, play them out, want them out of your life, the matter what.
These 3 stages are all in here in Denmark. And some people just only want maybe let's say nr. 2 or nr. 3 (above), the matter how much you try to talk to them, making them feel good in your presense, trying to solve their knee-jerks. He or she just don't like/accept you, and because the Social status has so much influence in Denmark, then it has to be handle right. And then you can't ONLY use the tape "Relationships" or to solve things with, if they don't want to, the matter what.. Or the "Instantanous Personal Magnetism". Good at creating a good presence, but some maybe get envy or jalous. **** them...
To play others out, can be done (very commen in Denmark) by talking to your enemy's friends. The one's that are close to that person. That will make him/her frustrated as hell. He/she will think: Ok, who do I trust right here. Or you could make fun of this person to others.. Also very commen in Denmark, called "mobning" (-in danish). Or a thousand other things can be done...
So anybody knows about a personal learning course, good books on Social Strategies? Wanīt to be a master on that field here...
It's incredible how much I have got out of that now. Before I felt like (didn't actually really knew i felt that way, but found out) i was a "victim" infront of others, on social issues. But now i feel like "I'm in control, I'm making the move here, geting what I want". And so I got. I have a really good job, lot's of good colleagues, a leader, and a lot of beautiful women . Buut still have some social things I would like to be more in control of.
Ok, I believe, if you get a Ph.D student, then the social part plays a lot less, because there will not be som many people here. But if you want an education, then you will not survive only focusing on how easily you learn etc.
The world is beautiful, if you have the selfesteem to handle it.
LivingHigh.