Some of us have a lot of childhood baggage about success and failure at projects. Personally, many times as a very small child I was set up to fail by people with unreasonable or conflicting expectations. Please one, displease the other, no way to win. Success was painful and so was failure. I eventually came to "understand" that the only way to win was not to play. Embracing the idea of safety in non-participation blocked off a lot of healthy avenues for achieving happiness. So in addition to "getting around to it", I'm working on rewiring the engrained idea that doing is bad, as well as loving and forgiving myself for the time I've wasted being stuck.
