Aloha Blackiekitty,
You both share the same "good" direction, as you both belong to the "west" group (5, 6, 7, 8). Fortune elements are accent colors that can be worn (scarf, handkerchief, etc.) He could put a small fire colored activation in the SW of your bedroom, or depending on the decor of your bedroom, a little steam created from complementing fire and blue accent pillows that work with the bedspread and linens selected for the sector element the room is located in, can result in a pleasurable result.
Much Love, Shawn