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#86551 08/27/17 02:37 PM
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I purchased my Paraliminals about a year ago and I must say they have really helped me. I seem to be developing a "thick skin" and the little things that used to upset me don't upset me anymore. This is good because I have a job that requires me to deal with people. Are there any Paraliminals that can help me continue to "grow a leather back?"

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Which Paraliminal are you using already and what is your communication / relationship goal, where you require a 'thick skin'?

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Oh, I'm sorry. I guess I have to ask a smart question in order to get a straight answer on this forum.

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You said, Are there any Paraliminals that can help me continue to "grow a leather back?"

I asked which ones have you got? And in what area of your life?

If you want a "smart" answer. It's .... All of 'em.

Alex

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Hi deandrakaye,

I understand your desire to get specific feedback and I get Alex inquiring for information. This is because there are so many different benefits from the paraliminals and they benefit each of us in different ways. So - i will share what has helped me - and in doing so, i can't say they will benefit you the same way, but please see if my story might give you benefit.

My conflict resolution style is 'avoider'. Sometimes that is a great style to have - other times i could use more of what I think you are calling a "leather back". So here is what I have noticed has helped me:

The New Action
Tne New Option A and B
Power Thinking - this has added what i would call a 'backbone' to my messaging - firmness, resolution
Sales Leap (i saw benefits the very next day!!)
Talking to Win - this has helped to be more precise and focused in my messaging.

This is all based on my experience only. Hopefully others will share their thoughts too.

I hope you will continue to experiment and return to share you findings. I always enjoy hearing about what has helped and supported others in their quests.

wesmanlv #86603 09/07/17 07:35 AM
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Thank you. I will give those Paraliminals a try right away.


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