Hi deandrakaye,
I understand your desire to get specific feedback and I get Alex inquiring for information. This is because there are so many different benefits from the paraliminals and they benefit each of us in different ways. So - i will share what has helped me - and in doing so, i can't say they will benefit you the same way, but please see if my story might give you benefit.
My conflict resolution style is 'avoider'. Sometimes that is a great style to have - other times i could use more of what I think you are calling a "leather back". So here is what I have noticed has helped me:
The New Action
Tne New Option A and B
Power Thinking - this has added what i would call a 'backbone' to my messaging - firmness, resolution
Sales Leap (i saw benefits the very next day!!)
Talking to Win - this has helped to be more precise and focused in my messaging.
This is all based on my experience only. Hopefully others will share their thoughts too.
I hope you will continue to experiment and return to share you findings. I always enjoy hearing about what has helped and supported others in their quests.