Hurm.
How about believing in yourself and building the life you want yourself?
Relying on others for your happiness makes them resentful of you. They may love you at first, but chances are they will grow to hate you.
Better to follow your bliss, build upon your *own* happiness so that you are a self-reliant, complete individual and not a parasite.
In imagining this perfect man, I fear that you may be building a crutch for yourself that will end up making you a cripple when you already have the ability to walk on your own.
