"Originally posted by babayada:
How about believing in yourself and building the life you want?'"

Is magic part of the equation?


"Relying on others for your happiness makes them resentful of you", unless they enjoy you relying on them for your happiness... which happens only when you deserve that pedestal... if you are driving you... Or, if you are an adept sorcerer... then you would not have needed to ask "why?"...
In imagining this perfect man, is the first step to creation... unless you have already developed abilities of creation...
You wouldn't be here if you had...
Maybe also ask "how?" given that you have the first step... Maybe the appropriate question is, "What be the second step?"