I am with Kaiden on that point.

There are so many wonderful people in the world, and so many ways to love others! Sometimes, you can even love someone, who also loves you, AND you can work well together...somtimes it does not work that way...

Why limit yourself with the idea that there could only be one? Not only does it set people up for failure (you and others), it also removes any sense of accountability, potential for self improvement, proactivity, and healthy surrender.

You have love in your life. Lots of it. Enjoy that, seek out others to love. Somtimes, it is romantic love, sometimes it is friendship, sometimes it is another of the infinite varieties of love---enjoy them all, you deserve it.