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Originally posted by vita-man:
Why limit yourself with the idea that there could only be one? Not only does it set people up for failure (you and others), it also removes any sense of accountability, potential for self improvement, proactivity, and healthy surrender.
Oh yeah, does it ever set you up for failure. Think about it, in all of existence there is ONE "special someone," and if you mess up with them, you've ruined your life. Who needs that kind of pressure? I'd hate to be anyone's "soul mate," because they'd be so afraid of loosing me that they would come across as needy. I'm not attracted to needy people, and neither are most women. Strong, independent people seek out relationships with others of their kind.
I also find it silly to think that God has a deep personal interest in who I have sex with. However, as a student of theology, I have a deep personal interest in who God has sex with. I guess it's hypocritical of me.
Then again, it's what made The Davinci Code so popular, isn't it?
[This message has been edited by Kaiden (edited January 05, 2006).]
