Yep, as trite as it sounds, anything other than a truly win-win situation, either in personal relationships or any negotiations is a quick path to the dark side.
One seminar I went to, we learned how to give "psychic hugs" to people. So if I'm sitting in my car, and I see someone who seems to be radiating depression or some other unresourceful state, I'll throw a quick "love-hug" at them. Its all about the karma.
George
