Yeah, visualization has been challenging for me, its more of a feeling I have to get over, or change. I have been listening to the change audiophonix cd I recieved with holosync and re-imagining truamatic memories, lately I have been noticing the fear changing. I don't know its because of that or because I have stopped fighting it and accepted it no matter how painfull it gets. I just experience it. I have been playing with accepting things, and it has put me in the position of the witness. I just kind of stumbled into it. I don't if this will work. I guess I'll find out when the rubber meets the road, because in the past I have felt better then in a relationship the anxiety comes out and retards the relationship.