I have come to the conclusion that if I teach all my parts to laugh, all my problems will disappear. Laughing at any incident will diminish the effect of that incident. (The hard part of course will be to be able to teach laughing.) NLP anhoring could be a good start? Where should I start? Let's see, maybe seeing myself from outside in a shameful situation? A heartful laugh (without sneerin!) would do the job. The kind of laugh I had at my own message full of mispelled words in the latest thread started by Grant. (Believe me, I had really fun!) It's like appreciating the hidden wisdom of any unpleasant incident, seeing the logic behind it, and seeing that it all was worth it. (OK, I admit, I'm citing the resiliency course here... But the course seems to have done a good job!!)

So let's LAUGH!

Edit. I'll have to get serious about this!

[This message has been edited by Oxygen (edited January 26, 2006).]