Hey Ploppsdman,
I think you might be missing the point in which everyone is trying to give you...
Which is there is a way to get better...for one person its one way, for another its something else...
but the one thing you have to do....is mentally want to make your life better...
To me it doesnt seem that you want to do that, it seems like your just waiting for life to change the way you live...like winning the lottery or something.
The way you refer to yourself as a loser and accepting that as who you are is the real problem...you dont have to hit bottom to pick yourself up...isnt that going in completely the opposite direction?
And what if you do hit what you consider to be rock bottom...will you really be able to change your life around then?
Everyone here has given you advice...They gave it because they dont think your a loser (even though we dont know what you go through everyday), but because we believe your someone looking for help, because you do at least value your life, and its quality.
Is it really that hard to believe that with 6 billion people in the world...that one person has gone from less than you and turned there life around....for that matter...is that hard to believe that 100, 1,000 or even 1,000,000 or more have done the same. so why cant you be one of them.
The reason why I told you to read that book...(there are other types of books and things to do out there), partly is because it helped me....but more importantly because it taught me...that you cant change your life until you change the way you think.
good luck.
