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Originally posted by bhenry:
High self esteem is not dependant on circumstances outside of you. It is truly about having peace of mind...It is not about being so obsessed with one person and having a tunnel vision of wanting that specific woman... I personally think it is healthier to build up your self esteem so that you can attract someone who you are compatible with emotional, intellectually, spiritually and physically.
I read your post again and had to laugh. It's DEFINITELY been a case of tunnel vision. We have the compatibility... everything except for the emotional. 
