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Originally posted by Sandy Millies:
Hi Glenwood,
And remember that when you state your goal before listening, make sure that it is stated in the positive, and that it is something that is within your control. For example, to say, "I want this girl to like me" or "I want her to feel the same way I do" is not a well-formed goal. You cannot control whether or not people like you, no one can, but you can decide to become a more charismatic or outgoing or self-confident.
Thanks, Sandy. I'd probably buy all the paraliminals if I could afford them. I just needed a place to start. Your response poses an interesting question. I was thinking about Natural Brilliance, because this definitely has the symptoms of a stuck state. Wouldn't it be difficult to state a goal in the positive when you don't even know where the real problem is?
