To Glenwood and Tracey; I would strongly suggest reading Are you the one for me, Knowing who's right & avoiding who is wrong by Barbara De Anglelis. This book has been a complete epiphany for me. I was in a similar situation as the two of you. I got my wish, and she walked all over me. I lost my sense of self. I compromised alot in order to make it work. When all it was overblown infatuation, for the both of us. If you can avoid wasting energy and time in a relationship that is going to go nowhere, or hurt you in the end then do it, because it is so hard to pick up the pieces and remain tougher than leather, because while your skin becomes like jello your heart becomes callous like leather from allowing yourself to fall into a fantacy and be so decieved.
