Dear Glenwood,

I would highly recommend you read - How to Break Your Addiction to a Person by Howard Halpern. What I find amazing about your original post is, she's made it pretty clear she's not interested in you, but still you said - "I have to decide if I should move this relationship forward or coexist without her." You have no relationship to move forward. Also, you would not be coexisting without her - co - still means together. Listen, I don't mean to be harsh - I've certainly been addicted to people as well, but it's important to see your situation for what it is - an addiction, not a real relationship.