Ariane,
Very impressiv to say that at least you seem to be good at manifesting
your wishes. That's a skill for what many people would admire you.
Your only problem seems to be to avoid those negative or unwanted side effects, however, you should realize that when you wish something you ask for a change. This means a lot of things might change in your univers.
Perhaps you might state that you want the results in the best possilbe way for all involved and that you feel harmoious and happy when your wishes become a reality.
Cheers,
