Since you are your own Sales man selling yourself on the idea that emotional wounds are holding you back. That sales man can also discover the way to sell you the idea that you can heal emotional wounds and move on.
Just like with NLP consider how you would as a confident sales person convince the person over there (the you you want to help). The sales person always sells an idea. Once the other party owns the idea the other party is likely to buy without any intervention.
Alex
