The other two beleifs/processes (or hidden motivations) I noticed are:
1) If someone else has a problem, I immediately put all my wants aside. I actually feel relief when putting them aside. I concentrate totally to the other's problem. I try to find solutions even if it is utterly ridiculous. This alla happens automatcally, before i have a chance to think about it. The want to help the other person is there immediately, and that I can notice. Also that I have put ev everything concenrning my wants aside.
2) My future does not include me. That is, there are no images of me in my future. My future is existing just for the others. If I put an image of me in my future, it causes quite a lot of sress, and the image soon vanishes.
These two processes have survived 11 years of NLP, Richard Bandler and what else. So they must be something really deeply rooted. I see some kind of pattern forming, There is something behind these things. Though I cannot yet see what would be the underlying belief.
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